Generally, there're 3 ways most people deal with failure(s).
1) People who give up easily/giving excuses/blaming other people/events - In actual fact, such person will usually give up on the very first time they encounter setback. They will start giving all sorts of excuses and blaming other people for their failure.
2) People who keep on trying but after a few times of setbacks, they get frustrated and disillusioned from their ultimate goal and give up or settle with mediocrity results - This type of people are more willing to work hard to achieve their goals. Unfortunately, the lack of reviewing their goal and changing to a better strategy makes them stuck in the same problem and never get out of it. Hence, they get discouraged by those failure(s) and lost their sight on their goals. Eventually, they give up or willing to settle with mediocre results.
3) People who do whatever it takes to achieve their goals by continuously taking actions, review and change appropriate strategy if necessary until they get reach the outcome they want - This type of people are usually successful in their life as they have a strong beliefs and desires to achieve their goals in life. First, they will set their goal(s) to achieve, then develop a set of strategies to use and most importantly, taking positive action to reach their goals. Of course, life is never so easy. There are bound to be some failure(s) along the way. However, these people will never let disappointments and setbacks they encountered to overcome them. Instead, they treat failure(s) as feedback, find out what goes wrong, change to appropriate strategies and continue to take positive action until they finally achieve their goal(s).
So, which types of person are you?
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Reflection:
I hope this article is beneficial for you. Frankly speaking, most of the people around us belongs to the 2nd group of people. They often set high goals from themselves but only discover that they're being defeated by dreadful obstacles that comes along the way again and again. Perhaps, that was the tests we need to go through in order to be successful. Unfortunately, without consistent persistence and perseverance, most people begin to lose focus and faith on themselves and starting to give up on once their burning dreams. This is sad but true reality that human being are facing all this while. However, this is also crucial in truly differentiate between successful individuals with those living in mediocrity.
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